Alain de Botton s'attache à rendre la philosophie pertinente pour la vie quotidienne à travers ses livres d'essai. Son œuvre tisse avec minutie des expériences et des idées personnelles avec des réflexions d'artistes, de philosophes et de penseurs. Ce style distinctif, qualifié de « philosophie de la vie quotidienne », mêle de manière innovante des éléments narratifs à une analyse profonde. De Botton cherche à démontrer comment les concepts philosophiques peuvent enrichir et éclairer les expériences humaines communes, de la gestion des relations à la recherche de sens dans le travail et l'art.
Un homme, le narrateur, rencontre une jeune fille, Chloé. Ils s'aiment jusqu'au jour où elle part avec son meilleur ami à lui. Gros chagrin, puis il rencontre Rachel. Un sujet classique, mais Alain de Botton, 23 ans tout juste, a choisi d'émailler son roman d'une série de petits paragraphes où il fait ses commentaires au fur et à mesure
" Le titre original de l'ouvrage Kiss and Tell (Embrasse et raconte) suggère l'intimité du narrateur, tout occupé à dresser la biographie de sa petite amie, la gracieuse Isabel qui mange des carottes aux arrêts d'autobus, préfère la margarine au beurre, déteste les cornichons, Milton et sortir la poubelle le mardi, mais adore en revanche Vaclav Havel, le jus d'orange et lire dans son bain. L'intérêt de tout ça ? Considérable, of course. À quoi bon tout raconter des choses ordinaires d'un être extraordinaire ? Ou des choses extraordinaires (tuer quelqu'un, gagner à la loterie, etc.) d'un être ordinaire ? Non, Alain de Botton préfère sagement s'en tenir aux choses ordinaires d'un être ordinaire. Et de chapitre en chapitre où il médite sur le rôle des arbres généalogiques, la validité des tests psychologiques et graphologiques ou la possibilité philosophique de voir jamais le monde avec les yeux d'un autre, il nous plonge dans les affres et les joies d'une love story qui va cahin-caha. Au fait, n'est-il pas dangereux de prétendre tout connaître de la personne qui partage votre vie ou votre lit ? Pour ne pas avoir esquivé cette décisive question, Alain de Botton mérite encore notre gratitude infinie. " Frédéric Vitoux, Le Nouvel Observateur
The book features insights and lessons shared by various guests from the Diary of a CEO podcast, hosted by Steven Bartlett. It explores themes of entrepreneurship, personal growth, and resilience through candid conversations with influential figures. Readers will find practical advice and inspiring stories that highlight the challenges and triumphs faced in business and life. This collection aims to motivate and empower individuals to pursue their ambitions while navigating the complexities of modern success.
Emotional intelligence affects every aspect of the way we live, from romantic to professional relationships, from our inner resilience to our social success. It is the ultimate soft skill of the twenty-first century. Drawing on his work in the hugely successful School of Life organisation, Alain de Botton presents a compendium of emotional intelligence. Using his trademark mixture of analysis, anecdote, insight and practical wisdom, he considers how we interact with each and with ourselves, and how we can do so better. From the reigning master of popular philosophy, this is an essential look at the skill set that defines our modern lives.
This is a book about everything you were never taught at school. It's about how to understand your emotions, find and sustain love, succeed in your career, fail well and overcome shame and guilt. It's also about letting go of the myth of a perfect life in order to achieve genuine emotional maturity. Written in a hugely accessible, warm and humane style, The School of Life is the ultimate guide to the emotionally fulfilled lives we all long for - and deserve. This book brings together ten years of essential and transformative research on emotional intelligence, with practical topics including: - how to understand yourself - how to master the dilemmas of relationships - how to become more effective at work - how to endure failure - how to grow more serene and resilient.
Alain de Botton pairs six philosophers - Socrates, Epicurus, Seneca, Montaigne, Schopenhauer and Nietzsche - with six everyday problems to which they are able to give the most helpful and fascinating answers.
Two authorities on popular culture reveal the ways in which art can enhance mood and enrich lives - now available in paperback This passionate, thought-provoking, often funny, and always-accessible book proposes a new way of looking at art, suggesting that it can be useful, relevant, and therapeutic. Through practical examples, the world-renowned authors argue that certain great works of art have clues as to how to manage the tensions and confusions of modern life. Chapters on love, nature, money, and politics show how art can help with many common difficulties, from forging good relationships to coming to terms with mortality.
How does love survive and thrive in the long term? In Edinburgh, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love, get married, have children. But this is their story after the first flush of infatuation. As Rabih and Kirsten reform their ideals under the pressures of an average existence, they discover that love is a skill that needs to be learned, and not just experienced.
The essential guide to mental health from the bestselling author of The School of LifeA Therapeutic Journey follows the arc from mental crisis and collapse to convalescence and recovery. Written with kindness, knowledge and sympathy, it is both a practical guide and a source of consolation and companionship in what might be some of our loneliest, most anguished moments.Alain de Botton explores how we can cope with a variety of forms of mental pain and illness, from the mild to the severe. It considers how and why we might become ill; how we can explain things to friends, family and colleagues; how we can find our ways towards recovery; and how we can build resilience, so as to live wisely alongside our difficulties.At heart this is a book about redemption - about regaining the thread of our lives, rediscovering meaning, and finding our way back to connection, warmth and joy.'Alain de Botton is a brave and highly intelligent writer' Observer'One of our most consistently illuminating writers on contemporary culture' John Gray, New Statesman
Drawing from the fields of history, psychology, politics, and economics, a look at the anxieties associated with a pursuit of status explains how humans have sought to cope with their fears and offers suggestions on ways to deal with the problem
