Anneli S. Rufus Livres

An essential defense of the people the world loves to revile -- the loners -- yet without whom it would be lostThe Buddha. Rene Descartes. Emily Dickinson. Greta Garbo. Bobby Fischer. J. D. Loners, all -- along with as many as 25 percent of the world's population. Loners keep to themselves, and like it that way.Yet in the press, in films, in folklore, and nearly everywhere one looks, loners are tagged as losers and psychopaths, perverts and pity cases, ogres and mad bombers, elitists and wicked witches. Too often, loners buy into those messages and strive to change, making themselves miserable in the process by hiding their true nature -- and hiding from it. Loners as a group deserve to be reassessed -- to claim their rightful place, rather than be perceived as damaged goods that need to be "fixed."In Party of One Anneli Rufus--a prize-winning, critically acclaimed writer with talent to burn -- has crafted a morally urgent, historically compelling tour de force -- a long-overdue argument in defense of the loner, then and now. Marshalling a polymath's easy erudition to make her case, assembling evidence from every conceivable arena of culture as well as interviews with experts and loners worldwide and her own acutely calibrated analysis, Rufus rebuts the prevailing notion that aloneness is indistinguishable from loneliness, the fallacy that all of those who are alone don't want to be, and wouldn't be, if only they knew how.

Using extensive research, interviews and her own experiences, the author, who has struggled with low self-esteem her entire life, explores how a lack of faith in ourselves can turn us into our own worst enemies and what can be done to stop this secret epidemic.--Publisher's description.

Welcome to Weird Europe... where truth is stranger than fiction.Thrill-seekers, students of the bizarre, travelers searching for relief from the usual tourist attractions-rejoice! At last, here is a guidebook to Europe's dark side. From strange natural wonders to the handiwork of mad scientists, dreamers, and zealots, Europe harbors hundreds of fascinating-and occasionally gruesome-suprises. In these pages, you'll -Two-headed animals-Erotic museums-Creepy catacombs-A cathedral made of salt-A railroad operated by children-The Arnold Schwarzenegger Museum-An all-ice hotel-Ancient pagan rituals-Mines-Sewer tours-A museum of espionage-UFO landing sites-Pictures drawn by the dead-A frog museum-Pancake races-Oddball art-Underground cities-Giants, freaks, and Siamese twins-The Temple of Echoes-And more!Covering twenty-five countries, with complete directions, opening hours, and admission prices for nearly a thousand wild attractions, Weird Europe is an indispensable guide to a world that you never knew existed. Once you enter Weird Europe, there's no turning back.

Exploring California’s infamous reputation, this guide reveals the state's most scandalous and celebrity-filled locations, transforming the concept of tourism for the modern traveler. It invites readers to discover the hidden gems of mayhem and miracles, showcasing sites that embody the wild spirit of California. Perfect for those curious about the underbelly of the Golden State, it offers an unfiltered look at the places that define its unique culture and history.

Focusing on a transformative lifestyle, this book serves as a comprehensive guide for eco-conscious individuals dedicated to recycling, reusing, and repurposing. It aims to empower a growing subculture that prioritizes sustainability over consumerism, providing practical tips and inspiration for those looking to make environmentally friendly choices in their daily lives.

Exploring a significant social trend, the author delves into the feelings of being stuck and the desire for change in modern life. Drawing on insights from psychology and personal experiences, the book offers a thoughtful analysis of how individuals can navigate their challenges and pursue transformation. It encourages readers to reflect on their own circumstances and consider actionable steps toward personal growth and fulfillment.

Rufus identifies a rather striking social trend: many people are stuck in the wrong relationship, career, or town, or just with bad habits they can't seem to quit. Many even say they want to change, but face a complex network of causes for immobilization.