The theory of "servant leadership" is a philosophy in which the servant-leader shares power and puts the needs of others first, in order to help them develop and perform as highly as possible. Five years into his marriage, the Wagners appeared to be stuck in a destructive relationship pattern he refers to as the "fierce woman/fearful man" cycle. Now he is honest about his failures and frustrations as a husband, the realizations that saved his marriage, and the requirements God places on every husband to participate in a marriage, regardless of who has the stronger personality.
