Good Boundaries And Goodbyes

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RELATIONSHIPS ARE WONDERFUL... UNTIL THEY'RE NOT Have you ever thought, I can't keep doing this-something has to change? Or, I've tried everything to fix this relationship but nothing is working-I fear I'm becoming someone I don't even like? Or even, I love this person, but this is starting to feel impossible? You've listened to all the advice. But you're beginning to realize if the other person doesn't want to change what's broken in the relationship, you can't change it on your own. So now what? For years, I've struggled through these questions and more. I understand this dance with dysfunction on a deeply personal level. And though the details of your situation may be different from mine, I want to be the friend who comes alongside you with compassion to show you that it isn't unloving to set a boundary, and it isn't un-Christian to say goodbye. In fact, these may be the missing pieces you need to fully embrace in order to love people well and not lose yourself in the process. I think you'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea. And I'll be with you every step of the way as we navigate these hard topics together.